怎麼判斷誰的話可以聽？How to know whose advice to follow?

【 English below 】無論是大公司老闆、路邊小攤飯，有錢人、窮人，每個人在活著的時候所做的一切，也許說都是為了想要幸福快樂、內在和平喜悅也不為過？

所以若有人來對你說教、勸說、說為你好，可以去感受他們真的有幸福快樂、內在和平嗎？他們的生命品質是你嚮往的嗎？

若沒有的話，他們的話真的可以聽聽就好😅

記得左邊聽右邊出嘿～

因為不是所有的建議都是平等的，也不是所有的指引都適合你的道路。

你有權選擇，選擇讓誰來影響你，來進入你的生命。

也許最好的指引是這個：跟隨那些走路輕盈的人，而不是那些聲音最大的人。

思考問題

1. 我是否曾因對方「講得很有道理」就接受了建議，卻忽略了他們本身的生命狀態與能量？

2. 現在的我，有沒有在不知不覺中，被一些我其實不嚮往的價值觀影響著？

3. 若以「誰活得輕盈」作為生命的指南針，我現在會選擇跟隨誰？又會更靠近怎樣的生活？

祝你有美好的一天 💖

How to know whose advice to follow

Whether you're a CEO of a big company or running a food stall on the street, whether you're rich or poor, isn’t it fair to say that everything we do in life is ultimately driven by one shared desire? To feel happy, to find peace within, to experience joy.

So when someone starts giving you advice, preaching, or telling you what's "good for you," take a moment and tune in:

Do they truly radiate happiness and inner peace? Do they live with a sense of joy that feels real to you?

Is their life something you would genuinely aspire to?

If the answer is no, then maybe their words are just words. You can hear them out—but you don’t have to hold onto them.

Let it go in one ear and out the other. 😅

Because not all advice is created equal. And not all guidance is meant for your path.

You get to choose whose energy you let into your life.

And maybe the best compass is this: Follow the ones who walk with lightness, not just the ones who talk the loudest.

Reflection Questions

1. Have I ever accepted someone's advice just because it sounded right, without noticing the energy or quality of their life?

2. Am I following ideas that don’t actually feel like me, without even realizing it?

3. If I used “who walks with lightness” as my compass in life, who would I choose to follow—and what kind of life would that lead me toward?

Have a good day 💖