你到底在怕什麼？停止比較，開始拓展自己吧！

【 English below 】人的一生，總愛煩惱學業、愛情、工作，這三項亦是人與人之間最愛比較的。

但是……

世界上學校上萬所，你害怕找不到自己想要讀的學校？

世界上有上億人口，你害怕找不到你愛的而他/她也愛你的人？

世界上工作上千萬種，你害怕找不到一份你喜歡的工作？甚至你可以創造工作。

世界那麼大，為何眼界只願意停留原地固步自封？

放下比較，忠於自我，會找到屬於自己的一片天。

不是說一定要往國外跑，什麼問題就可以都解決了，而是當自己處在一個無法讓自己獲得幸福的地方，就該移動腳步，擴大生活圈，甚至離開舒適圈！

世界，渴望擁抱你。

（在旺陽kayaking時腦袋裡所蹦出來的想法，照片是坐在我前方的葛葛）

2014/3/12 寫於寮國，旺陽

 

讓我們一起來想想✨

1. 我是否因為害怕，或因為拿自己和別人比較，而限制了自己的選擇？

2. 如果我不再擔心別人在做什麼，而是專注在真正讓我心動的事上，我的生活會是什麼樣子？

3. 現在是不是該踏出舒適圈，就算只是一小步，也能為快樂創造更多空間？

Ｗhat are you afraid of？Stop Comparing. Start Expanding.

Throughout life, we tend to worry about three things: school, love, and work. And ironically, they’re also the three areas we most often compare ourselves with others.

But think about it—

There are tens of thousands of schools around the world. Why fear not finding the one that’s right for you?

There are billions of people on this planet. Why fear not meeting someone you love, who also loves you back?

There are millions of jobs out there. Why fear not finding one that you enjoy—or even creating your own?

The world is so big. Why let your vision stay small and stuck in the same old place?

Let go of comparison. Be true to yourself. That’s how you’ll find your own space in the sky.

This isn’t about needing to move abroad to fix your problems. But when you’re in a place where happiness feels out of reach, maybe it’s time to move—expand your world, shift your steps, leave your comfort zone.

The world is ready to embrace you.

(Wrote this while kayaking in Vang Vieng, Laos. Hugo sitting in front of me.)

March 12, 2014 | Vang Vieng, Laos


 

Reflection Questions✨

1. Have I been limiting my choices because of fear—or because I’ve been comparing myself to others?

2. What would my life look like if I stopped worrying about what others are doing and focused on what truly lights me up?

3. Is it time to take a step out of my comfort zone, even just a small one, to create more space for happiness?